Exxxotica is a large porn convention held four times a year throughout the East Coast. When you come to Exxxotica you will find all different types of cam models and porn stars performing live for both fans online and patrons at the event. There are men and women from all walks of life and a variety of different porn sites, who come together in one big room with a common goal… to meet their fans and further their career!
Throughout the year cam models put on wonderful shows from the comfort of their homes or studios, but four times a year we gather together to put on an amazing experience for our fans. This convention is not only exciting – it gets your adrenaline pumping as a spectator – but it also brings a very unique set of feelings and energy to the performers as well.
As a cam model who loves performing at conventions I took the opportunity to ask some fellow models how Exxxotica conventions feel to them, how many they’ve been to, and how it has helped advance their career. Although the answers are all different, it’s safe to say that performing at a large convention is a feeling that is hard to beat!
What site(s) do you stream on, and how many Exxxotica conventions have you attended?
RubySinclaire: “I stream on MyFreeCams and this is my 15-18th convention!”
Lilhoneybeebuzz:“I stream on OF TV and this is my 12th convention.”
KatieKushxx2:“My livestreams are on LoyalFans and this is my 5th convention.”
Summercolxoxo: “I’m on LoyalFans and as an exhibitor this is my first Exxxotica!”
RorrieGomez:“I’m on MyFreeCams and over the course of 10 years this is my 7th.”
LunaZane:“I’m on MyFreeCams and Chaturbate, and this is my first Exxxotica.”
MyrtleMystic:“I’m only on Chaturbate and this is my second convention.”
Nami3Neko:“I’m on Chaturbate and Twitch for streaming and I’ve been coming since 2019, so at least 10!”
As you can tell before we even get into reasons, there is a lot to love about Exxxotica; models keep returning year after year, event after event, because they love these conventions!
As a cam model there is something really special and comforting about your cam space in your house. It becomes a safe place where you can make your own rules, in my experience – somewhere you can express yourself however you want to! But four times a year we venture out of our spaces to put on a public show. Doing this definitely takes us out of our comfort zone, but most of us love it! I wanted to hear from other models about how they feel when they perform at a large convention center live at a booth, and below are some of their answers.
How is streaming at Exxxotica different from streaming in your own home?
RubySinclaire: “Oh I hate how different it is! Sometimes people wanna see all of me, using all of me, but I can’t do that here! No I really do love it though it’s just hard because I don’t have my fancy equipment, toys, microphone, here there is a lot of background noise. Sometimes here I feel like I’m camming like it’s 2015.”
lilhoneybeebuzz:“There are so many more eyes! It feels so much more vulnerable having that many eyes on you in person versus on a camera screen! 10,000 people viewing you on a camera screen doesn’t feel the same as when you have 1,000 people in person seeing you, cheering you on! It can be surreal, it can be overwhelming, it can be loud, it can be overstimulating, but it can be so much more exciting! So much more emotional! But it can also be a little scarier…”
KatieKushxx2: “It’s very different because you get to meet everybody face to face, I love getting to meet everyone! And it makes me be more present.”
Summercolxoxo: “Oh wow it feels really different. It’s a really fun experience! Here you get to meet new people, really nice people. They smile at you, they come talk to you, they wanna know more about you! I completely recommend this experience to more models online.”
RorrieGomez: “It’s a little overwhelming sometimes, it’s so fun but it’s a little overwhelming! You have to be able to kind of switch on and off, like you’re talking to the chatroom and then there’s people in real life and you wanna give everyone the same amount of attention! But that’s the only downside.”
LunaZane:“Streaming at home then streaming at a convention really makes you come out of your comfort zone and forces you to meet new people. That’s why I like it, I’m able to connect with new girls, meet models, and make new friends! I’m not able to do that at home.”
MyrtleMystic:“I get to see live reactions of everyone around me! I love to see the double takes when they see my tits out! It feels like a different experience. It’s fun… It’s almost like being a stripper without having to be in a strip club.”
Nami3Neko: “One HUNDRED times different! It’s so distracting, there’s so much stimulation. Even now there’s so much stimulation, I’m talking, they are tipping, I’m buzzing! But I really like it. Having the stream going at Exxxotica actually kind of calms me down a little bit, with all of the crowds it’s nice to be able to just focus in on it.”
As you can see, coming to Exxxotica is a really big deal for models. It’s exciting, fun, overwhelming, maybe even emotional for some, and being in the public eye feels very different than having viewers on our streaming sites. We have to show up with full confidence despite knowing our stream will be very different from what we are used to at home. In our cam space we never experience face to face interactions with our fans, we read replies but never see the reactions in person. But no matter how overwhelmed the models seemed they all had a smile on their face and eagerly agreed they would keep coming back!
Meeting new fans, finding new supporters, making friends and memories aren’t the only things we look forward to at conventions… The networking opportunities are almost endless at conventions. As a model I know that Exxxotica helped further my career, so I wanted to ask the models how it has effected theirs.
How has coming to Exxxotica helped further your career?
RubySinclaire:“I think coming and collaborating with people, even taking pictures with people really makes a difference! If you take pictures with everybody and post it on social media it’s instant exposure for both people – their followers, my followers, that’s what I think helps me grow after each event.”
Lilhoneybeebuzz:“I feel like coming to Exxxotica has connected me with other models and businesses that I would not have met if I hadn’t come to this type of convention.”
KatieKushxx2: “I think it’s helped a lot! It’s helped me build a real connection with people instead of just online and it’s helped me a lot with getting my name out there.”
Summercolxoxo:“Oh it helps. The people come here and they see me and oh my gosh they wanna know more about me, so they go online and they find my social media, my streams and all that… I can also meet other streamers, maybe bigger than me, they get to know me and think it would be cool to work with me.”
RorrieGomez:“It’s really good for networking! I wouldn’t say it helps my streams while I’m here regarding my chatroom but I get to meet models, and make friends! It’s kind of a lonely industry sometimes, other than these conventions it’s just you and your camera.”
LunaZane:“It helps my career because I can network with other models. It helps me get exposure, but honestly meeting new girls is a great way to boost your income!”
MyrtleMystic:“I think being able to talk to other creators, even just like watching them is an eye opening experience! Maybe it gives you other ideas, maybe other people to work with, and then you make connections with people and it helps you grow and helps them grow.”
Nami3Neko:“Definitely networking! But my favorite part is meeting the people who come to see me.”
All of the models agree: Exxxotica helps your career!
Models may be way out of their comfort zone but we all agree nothing beats the ability to meet other models. The stress and altered shows are worth it for the ability to grow our careers and make new connections. The Exxxotica conventions really offer an experience and opportunity like no other. Four times a year we get to share this wonderful weekend with our friends, colleagues, and fans. Next time you plan to attend or watch a convention, remember how much it takes for a model to show up and bring their A game; your favorite model may be out of their comfort zone, and could really use your support!
Thank you for supporting Adult All Access! Don’t forget to follow us on social media, @AdultAllAccess.
Would you like to be featured on AdultAllAccess.biz or in one of our publications?
Email Nel@AdultAllAccess.biz to be interviewed, featured in a publication, to discuss sponsorship and collaborative projects, or for press releases. Email our support team Support@AdultAllAccess.biz with general inquires, questions, or comments.
We are an organization created and run by sex workers, for the folks in the adult entertainment industry and those who support us. We are seeking talent/adult entertainers, writers, videographers, etc. – if you have applicable skills, reach out to find out how you can get more involved with us!
