We are very pleased to introduce the final August Creator of the Week, Mistress Tomie, the goddess of “Seduction & Destruction…”
Mx. Tomie has an incredible personal website (https://mxtomie.com/) that delves into the explicit details of her relationships with her clientele, giving you a mouth-watering idea of the services Mx. Tomie offers, and plentiful information on her business and personality to tempt even the strongest of wills.
Follow Mx. Tomie on social media and subscribe to her OnlyFans for more of the temptress herself – find the links at the bottom of this interview.
How and when did you get started in the adult entertainment industry?
I started at the dungeon in 2019 and still remember the first moment flogging a sub – it was electric. I’ve always been kinky but it was clear that this was what I was meant to do. I went independent in 2020 partly due to COVID and partly due to my wonderful stable of subs; and in 2023 pivoted hard to digital domination! Since doing digital work, I’ve passed top 1% on OF and was nominated as one of XBIZ’s Best Fetish Clip Creator’s of the Year.
What advice would you give to yourself when you were new, if you could send your past self a message from the future?
I wish I started sooner, so I would say, “Just go for it – do it messy and don’t overthink the technical details.” Getting started was the hardest step since there’s many parts of in-person domination that don’t necessarily translate to the camera. Figuring out those gaps was a fun learning curve.
Who inspired you when you first started, if anyone, and who inspires you now or is a person you would maybe like to work with in the future? What attracted or attracts you to them?
There’s a few dommes that I’ve looked up to even if their branding is quite different from mine. I would say Alexandra Snow, Eva Oh, and Mistress Iris. If there’s ever a chance to collaborate with them I would gladly take it if the video idea makes sense. As a domme, what attracted me to them is dually their clear business acumen and also such a strong identity whether intellectually or aesthetically.
What has been your favorite scene/shoot/show or event etc. of your career, and why?
My favorite shoots are always with subs with whom I have great chemistry with. A few that come to mind are my ball busting clip with Baxxx Box or my pegging videos with Sage Roux. I also have a solid compilation of real time domination with my in-person subs where they take the most extreme parts of my aggressive personality, and that’s always lovely for others to witness.
How do you know when you need a break, and what does “taking a break” from your usual daily activities mean for you?
Currently, I intentionally take weekends off and try to get a few hours to myself whether in the morning or at night to rest. It’s easy in this industry to say yes to every opportunity and to go without stopping, but I’ve learned the hard way that can be unsustainable.
What’s your most-viewed comfort movie(s), and what are your usual snacks to go alongside? (Or if you’re not a movie person, your favorite other art medium of choice.)
My comfort watches are all anime! When I’m feeling cozy, I love a sweet shojou or slice of life. Romantic Killer on Netflix is really cute and I also like Kimi ni Todoke.
What makes you smile on a daily basis – whether a side hobby/project, an important place, or a familiar face in your life? (If it’s your pet, you are required to provide a photo of your buddy!)
I’ve been doing really fun personal projects around the intersection of femdom and anime culture, and those have been really fulfilling. For example, AnimeNYC is a big weekend for me each year and this year I’m going all out with custom latex outfits, hair and makeup, and vlogging the entire experience.
Do you have any exciting news or plans in the coming months for folks to look forward to?
I have an exciting Halloween shoot sponsored by IWantClips coming out in October, my BIG AnimeNYC vlog, and more kinky femdom projects under the wraps 😉 Follow me on Twitter and IG to be kept up to date!
What are your career goals for the next 2-5 years?
To keep doing what I’m doing. It took a year to build out my team and train them up, and now I just want to continue to create amazing femdom works and share my love for this space.
What do you hope is “your legacy” that you are known for in the adult entertainment industry?
That’s an ambitious question! I think I’ll leave that up for my audience to decide once I’ve had a few more years under my belt.
An enormous amount of thanks to Mx. Tomie for being featured on our platform and involved with our organization – we can’t wait to see what kind of trouble you get into next!
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Interview by Nel Parker, He/They – President of Adult All Access & Editor of SensualistMagazine. @Nel_P_Parker & @SITwithNP, visit AllMyLinks.com/NelParker& NelParker.com.
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